God With Us

Christmas: it is the most wonderful time of year and the most stressful time of year. School, work, family and friends all collide into one big beautiful mess of emotions. For some people there are a lot of tears over family issues, for others there is the stress of perfection, and for some this Christmas will be the first without a loved one. In these moments Christmas becomes difficult and we forget what we are really celebrating and that is Immanuel, God with us. That may sound cliché, but think about it –– God set aside His glory to live in an imperfect world; He witnessed all of the stress, brokenness and pain that we go through. He made the choice to become God with us and true joy, peace and healing is only found in the full realization that Christmas is (thankfully) not about us. However, it is all about the glory and awe achieved in the words God with us.

Dear Guys, Thank you

Typically at this time of year I would write an overall Thanksgiving post, but this year because of a recent post that I saw I want to take the time to thank the good guys in the world. The ones who open doors, the ones who are trustworthy and  above all the ones who value their faith, family and friends. This letter is for you.

Dear Guys,

On behalf of all the real women in the world I would like to thank you for all of the little and big things you do for us. The things that we single women often take for granted.

Thank you for being a gentlemen. Yes, I’ve seen and met women who think that you are being a prude, rude, or even flirting when you go out of your way to be nice — but that is her problem and not yours. Real women though do appreciate your thoughtful gestures and we do realize just how much chivalry has been erode over the years. We may not always say thank you, but we really do appreciate every time you go out of the way to make sure that we are okay.

Thank you for showing us respect. We live in a sex saturated culture where hooking up is so easy and relationships are nonexistent sometimes. Guys when you take the time to get to know us and you don’t make any physically demands you automatically go up in our eyes. We respect and trust you so much more when we know that you actually care about us and it is really attractive.

Thank you for loving us. Trust me I know that there are days when we can be mean, whinny, crazy and feel completely broken. We aren’t perfect, but when you choose to stand by our side, listen and try to help us…you remind us of what love really looks like and we will never forget the time that you took to try to help us.

There you have it guys, we don’t say thank you often enough, but we do notice and we are grateful.


“But perhaps God is strong enough to exult in monotony. It is possible that God says every morning, “Do it Again” to the sun; and every evening, “Do it Again” to the moon. It may not be automatic necessity that makes all daisies alike; it may be that God makes every daisy separately, but has never got tired of making them. It may be that He has the eternal appetite of infancy… The repetition in nature may not be a mere recurrence; it may be a theatrical encore.” ~G.K. Chesterton